Move on..... Is it really easy???

My dear readers’ one of my friend suggested me to write about love and relationships. So here i am trying to write something about move on from your past life.  

Guys i think move on is just a matter of putting your past behind us. I will be honest to you Moving on isn't easy. Just forget about the past, think about your future. Keep yourself busy in other things. NOT so easy but it's not a rocket science.

While these do help in some way, No matter how i tried to push away the past, the past hung their like a shroud, affecting the way you thought about yourself ur decisions and ur life

 Ultimately, there were past baggages to clear and subconscious, before I could really move on. All these require an ability to think consciously and to maintain a level of objectivity, which is hard because such matters are usually linked to deep sorrows and injured pride.

We think most of the time we can get out of it but thinking about move on and actually move on are two different things. Because in your farmer life you was living in shadow of your loved one’s

 It doesn’t really matter what the circumstances were, or who was right and who was wrong. The bottom line is that it hurts and that the pain is preventing you from moving forward. While time is the best healer, there are 8 concrete steps you can take that will facilitate the process:

1. Make the decision to let it go:- 

Making the decision to let it go also means accepting you have a choice to let it go. To stop reliving the past pain, to stop going over the details of the story in your head every time you think of the other person

2. Cut off contacts;- 

Do this at least for a little while. No, you do not need to be friends. Keeping an ex in your life is not by itself a sign of maturity; knowing how to take care of yourself and your emotional well-being 

3. Talk to your friends:-

You don’t have to go through this alone. Your friends are there for a reason, to help you, support you, and pull you through this period.

4. Love yourself more:-

Ultimately, moving on from a relationship that wasn’t working is about loving yourself.

5. Do the things you love:-

While spending time in your internal world is important, don’t linger too long in this stage. Get into some activities. What are the things  that excite you, enthuse you, make you feel rejuvenated? Engage yourself in them.

6. Meet new people:-

There are many great people to know out there. Don’t get cooped up with your life.

7. Stop being the victim and blaming others:-

Being the victim feels good — it’s like being on the winning team of you against the world. But guess what? The world largely doesn’t care, so you need to get over yourself

8. Focus on the present — the here and now — and joy:-

When you focus on the here and now, you have less time to think about the past

We need relationships with others to see ourselves more clearly. Every relationship we have reflects back to us what we are putting out into the world. Know that a relationship isn’t a failure just because it ended. If you grew as a person and learned something to move your life forward, then it served a purpose and was truly a success